How do I know if a match is who they say they are?
Checking the profile
Many apps offer photo or identity verification, and a verified badge shows the person completed that step. Reverse image searches can reveal whether a photo appears on other sites under a different name, which is a common warning sign.
Look for a profile with a consistent story across photos, messages, and details. A profile that is very new, has few photos, or repeats the same generic lines deserves a closer look.
- Look for a verified badge if the app offers one.
- Run a reverse image search on profile photos.
- Notice whether details change from one message to the next.
- Be cautious with anyone who rushes to move off the app.
Keeping the conversation safe
Ask a question that is easy to answer if the person is real, such as what they did that day or what kind of food they like, without sharing your address. Real people usually respond naturally, while scripted or evasive replies deserve a second look.
Never send money, gift cards, or crypto to someone you have not met, and do not share bank or identity details. Requests for money are one of the most common signs of a scam.
Common mistakes
- Trusting a profile because it has many photos.
- Sharing identity documents or financial details in a chat.
- Ignoring a sudden request to move to another app or send money.
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