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Safety & Consent
- How do I know if someone is old enough to date online?
You can't know for sure, so always ask and verify. If you're an adult, only date adults, and use age-verification features on dating apps. Never assume someone is of legal age without confirmation. - What should I do if someone sends unwanted explicit texts?
If someone sends you unwanted explicit texts, you should not respond, document the messages, and block the sender. If the behavior continues or feels threatening, report it to the platform and possibly law enforcement. - How do I say no to a text request without hurting feelings?
Keep it short, kind and clear. Thank them for the invite or question, say no directly, and skip long explanations. A simple, honest no is respectful and easy to accept. - What does consent look like in a text conversation?
Consent in texting means both people are clearly comfortable with the topic and the next step. It is enthusiastic, can be withdrawn at any time and is never assumed from silence or past messages. - How do I report harassing texts on a dating app?
Most dating apps have a report option on the profile or the chat. Save the messages, use the in-app report tool and block the account if you feel unsafe. Contact local authorities if threats or serious harassment continue. - How do I plan a safe first meeting from a dating app?
Meet in a public place, tell a friend the plan, arrange your own transportation and keep personal details private until you know the person better. Choose daytime or early evening plans when you are starting out. - How do I know if a match is who they say they are?
Check for a verified profile badge, compare photos for consistency, and ask simple questions that a real person can answer easily. Keep money and personal documents out of the conversation. - Is it okay to ask for a photo to confirm identity?
Asking for a recent everyday photo is generally reasonable, but keep the request simple and respectful. A verified profile or a short video call can do the same job without sharing private images. - Do I need to share my location with a date?
You do not need to share your live location with a date, and most people should not do so before meeting in person. If you choose to share, limit it to a short window and a trusted contact.