How do I stop unwanted messages on a dating app?

Updated October 2026 · How we answer

Blocking and reporting

Most dating apps let you block a profile from your chat list. Blocking stops the sender from contacting you and often hides your profile from them. If the messages include harassment, threats or explicit content you did not ask for, use the app's report tool as well.

Keep a record of the messages before you block or delete them, such as screenshots with dates. This helps if you need to report the account or contact authorities later.

• Block the sender in the app
• Use the report tool for abusive messages
• Take screenshots before deleting
• Keep records if you may escalate

Protecting your privacy settings

Check your profile visibility, location settings and who can message you. Many apps allow you to limit who sees your profile or to require a match before messaging. Turning on these settings can reduce unwanted contact.

Avoid sharing your phone number or social media accounts until you trust the person. Using the app's messaging feature keeps more of your information private. If you are unsure whether a message is harassment, trust your gut and take the step that feels safest. Protecting yourself is always a valid choice. Reporting helps the platform improve its safety tools over time.